We’ve been trying to keep these updates short and positive. But I don’t think there is any reason to ignore or gloss over the fact that although Cindy is healing, making progress everyday, she is in pain. Everyone I spoke to yesterday said that Cindy was feeling a lot of pain after her last surgery, and not seeing any visitors. A pain specialist was coming to see her.
Although she’s not quite up to talking on the phone, Cindy does have her computer. If you do not have her email address and would like to send her warm wishes and supportive words to help her through this difficult time please do. You can leave your thoughts in the comments section, or email them to me or Ginevra and we will pass them on to her.
Hey Cindy!
Not a day — no, hour — goes by without us mentioning you. Several times a day I cannot help but ask Myryah if she’s heard any updates of your condition. She’s very good with networking on the computer, as you know, and she’s been corresponding with your loved ones through email, IM and this blog whenever there’s chance… morning, noon and night. Occasionally, I wave to her and say, whaddup!” [For anyone at the office who may be reading this, she's holding down her end of the workload, as well.]
We had the honor of attending Steve’s funeral and it was wonderful to connect a face with all the (nick)names from the stories you and Steve shared with us. Amazing, loving people. After listening and talking to many of the folks who attended, I feel I know Steve more than I ever did as a next door neighbor. This is my fault, I am a bit introverted (I can’t help it). He did put in the effort, though. For example, he always seemed so eager to help me with any of my computer problems. I feel that if I had given him the chance, he would have helped me with some “life” problems. Even though I had several years on him, at times he seemed as bright and wise as an elder.
And speaking of age, Vivian is growing so fast! She’s constantly making us laugh. She can’t wait to see Aunt Cindy again. (You know how she loves to fly). In fact, we’re looking for a pair of “flying pants” for her. Where did you get yours again? So whenever you feel well enough to have us, we’ll come over. Let it be soon, though, because Myryrah is losing sleep.
I love you and wish you well,
Kevin
By: ted23 on July 2, 2008
at 10:38 am
Thinking of you all day every day. xxx m
By: ted23 on July 2, 2008
at 12:19 pm
cindy, thinking about you all the time
big love, erica
By: erica on July 2, 2008
at 12:54 pm
Hello Sweet Cindy!
There’s so much positive and truly loving energy swirling about you, I truly hope you can feel it!! Scott and I have been thinking and talking about you and Steve with such admiration over this last week (since we met you both, really… ) and hope, more than I can put into words, for your recovery in health and spirit.
Myryah’s always been a great connector of friends, but we really thought she hit the nail on the head when meeting you two. Steve’s smile and enthusiasm were absolutely contagious – he made us both feel like the most interesting people he had ever known, even when talking about mundane sorts of things like skateboarding injuries and what cookbooks we just bought. Your ease together was so comforting… it affected us immediately and each time we had the chance to spend time with you. Guitar Hero though, that was a completely different story…
I’m certain you’ll be surrounded by much care and support over the coming months, but please know that we’d love to see you when you’re up and about. There’s a special little place in St. Helena that’s ready for you anytime!
All our love,
Scott & Bree
By: Bree on July 2, 2008
at 12:54 pm
Thinking of you every day cindy. We all miss you so much at work. I am lost wihtout your good taste here. I am afraid by the time you get back the store will be full of tacky nic nacs. All of your customers are asking about you- all of you coworkers miss you every day.
The currants have all ripened and they remind me of you every time I see them…
By: Flora on July 2, 2008
at 1:17 pm
Cindy,
I send all my love and all my prayers!!!
Love,
Lyndsey Curatalo and Family
By: Lyndsey on July 2, 2008
at 6:32 pm
cindy-lou -
you are my best friend in the whole universe. I miss talking to you every day and having beers with you at kilowatt. I freakin’ miss you like it ain’t no joke, girl.
I know you are on this recovery like white on rice. “not for nothin” but you are really and truly my favorite. don’t tell Jenny.
By: mizginevra on July 4, 2008
at 1:32 am
I heard about your terrible tragedy through Steves Dad. He put up some links so we could better know who Steve was. I just want you to know that many people you’ve never met are feeling a small part of your loss, and praying for your full recovery. Be strong & God Bless.
Bob in Canada
By: Bob on July 5, 2008
at 1:20 am
Hi Cindy – (Steven’s aunt here)
Murray and I are thinking of you and praying for a quick recovery. There are no words to say about the loss of Steven and the pain you are in.
If there is anything we can do to help you, please do not hesitate to let us know.
Fondly,
Susan
By: Susan Radzanower on July 5, 2008
at 7:00 am
Hey Cinner,
Phil and I are coming to kiss you and love you in August. Hang in there, kiddo. You are the beautifullest.
Love you so much.
x
M.
By: Mary Burke on July 6, 2008
at 2:36 pm
Dear Cindy,
This is Kevin’s Mom — Myryah’s Mom-in-law. I praying and thinking of you every day. I hope I can help out and see you soon. Love, Pat
By: Pat Mann on July 7, 2008
at 2:18 pm
My beloved Burkinator –
I don’t have the words for sheer joy I feel whenever I think of you – I am so grateful that you are still on this planet with us. You are a WONDER.
Rumor has it that today you got sprung from the hospital! YAY! Sean and I are rooting for you during the work ahead, and we are sending you as much CA hippie white light as we can muster. Send up a signal flare when you’re ready for hot-tub time and we’ll come get you.
all my love,
Anneke
By: Anneke on July 7, 2008
at 8:16 pm
Cindy,
Sending you lotsa luv and best wishes for a quick recovery! Our classmate Carol had emailed us all this blog web site address. This blog is great: has updates on your progress, and pics and some stories from friends.
Your concerned-but-sure-you’ll-soon-be-ok classmate,
Cindy A.
By: Cindy A (one of the 3 Cindy's at UCBx) on July 10, 2008
at 10:38 am
Hey sweetie-peach Cindy,
how are you dear one? You are in my heart and thoughts and dreams of wellness —can’t get you outta my mind to be honest. There’s hardly a moment goes by when i’m not thinking of you and wondering how you’re doing — so glad you’re out of the hosp and in the caring arms of friends and family. Your UCBX community, especially us L5′ers, is a giant cheering squad of yeah Cindy you’re the best, can you hear us, WE SOOOOO appreciate you. Be well my friend,
Carol S
By: carol on July 10, 2008
at 5:46 pm
Hi Cindy! We had an event @ work the other day and there were two things missing at the bar. My Corona light with lime (lol) and you, my bar tender! I am happy to hear you are recovering here in SF and I can’t wait to see you again.
Your friend,
Nathan Rice
By: Nathan Rice on July 12, 2008
at 11:36 pm
Cindy, we’re thinking of you all the time, so glad to hear that you are out of the hospital and improving… it takes some serious strength to do what you are doing, you are amazing and you will get through this…
Be well -
Susie and Saul
By: Susie and Saul on July 14, 2008
at 2:24 pm
Hi Cindy,
I think about you every day and am praying for you! Love and miss you.
Teresa
By: Teresa Lamb on July 16, 2008
at 5:53 pm
Hi Cindy,
You don’t know me, but I heard about what happened to you and your boyfriend through a friend at my church and I wanted to let you know that I will be praying for you and your family and Steve’s and I am so sorry for your loss.
By: Laura on July 24, 2008
at 9:45 pm
Hi Cindy, I was just thinking about you and thought I would drop a line. *Happy Halloween*
-Nathan
By: Nathan on October 30, 2008
at 7:34 pm